Sunday, 18 November 2012

CONFUSION

I dont know what to do

My heart & mind are not working together

Which one should i listen

Do i want my past or my future

Afraid i might lose myself to her again

Pain, pain & more pain

Why did she come back

Is it your doing God

Or is it just my destiny

How much more can she hurt me

My heart has forgotten how to live..... how to love

Ill just keep walking the path infront of me

Lets see where life takes me

Wednesday, 14 November 2012

改变


India has always been a democratic and china has always been the authoritarian. Long back during Mao, the ideologies of the fledging communist state and the stomachs of its people clashed, and the stomachs lost. Decades after Mao and YI ZI ER SHI and the TIANANMEN MASSACRE, a lot has changed. China has grown and so have its leaders and the rampant corruption. But at least corruption is efficient in china. It can amount to 20-30 % of the project’s cost; but a onetime payment can fast track local government approvals that pave the way for profits to come in future.
As America saw a powerful and nail biting election, the gaze of the world’s media was focused squarely on Washington. But on the other side of the world, a leadership change of potentially greater significance was also getting under way. For the first time in a decade – and only the second time in history – the men at the top of the Chinese Communist Party will step down, voluntarily, and hand over power to a new generation.
But while American voters had a pretty good idea by now of who their candidates are and what they represent, the Chinese public remains utterly cut off from the political process. Not only do politicians here all sport identical dyed-black haircuts, but they all make identical, impenetrable and interminable speeches. The communist party is assiduous in removing all information about the leaders making it inaccessible for the common public. In modern Beijing, the Soviet art of Kremlinology, which involved scholars searching for hidden messages in reams of official jargon, or counting the use of certain phrases in the party newspaper, remains alive and well.
Indeed, while we knew that the leadership change will happen at the 18th Party Congress, which opened on Thursday, we did not know exactly when the new leaders will be unveiled or when the congress will end. Those in China cannot even search for the phrase “18th party congress” on the internet: it has been removed by the censors.
All we can be sure of is that, at some point in the near future, a group of men – and they are all likely to be men – will walk on to a dais in the Great Hall of the People in Tiananmen Square. These will be the seven members of the politburo standing committee, the Chinese equivalent of the Cabinet, selected (by an essentially mysterious process) from among the 25 politburo members originally elected by the party’s 300-strong central committee. Those who think the U.S. electoral college is a complicated system for choosing a leader should take a look at China right now.
The 18th National Congress will have 2270 delegates selected from 40 constituencies. This represents an increase of 57 delegates and two constituencies from the 17th Congress. 31 of these constituencies represent China's province-level Provinces, Autonomous Regions, and Municipalities. Six other delegations represent: Taiwan, the People's Liberation Army, The Central Party Organization, The Central Government Ministries and Commissions, Central State Owned Enterprises, and Central Banks and Financial Institutions. The remaining three delegations are the subject of conflicting accounts. Hong Kong and Macau may represent two delegations or one delegation or they may be treated as part of the Guangdong delegation. Other delegations that have been identified by various sources include the Peoples Armed Police, units involved in “social management”, the public service sector, workers in private enterprises, and workers in foreign and joint enterprises. No more than 68% of the delegates may hold leadership positions within the party. The remaining 32% will be "grassroots" party members who hold jobs outside of the party apparatus. The number of female delegates will be required to increase. Each delegation will be selected (by the province level congresses) in an election in which there are at least 15% more candidates than there are delegates to be selected. The candidates in these elections are heavily vetted by multiple party organs. In addition to these 2270 delegates, an uncertain number of additional delegates, primarily retired veteran Communist leaders, will be selected. It is designed to assess the country's progress, and set new directions. Every 10 years it selects the new leadership.
The delegates will pick the roughly 200 members of the party's Central Committee, about three-quarters of whom are expected to be replaced, mostly because of their age.
The Central Committee chooses the members of the Politburo, from which the powerful Politburo Standing Committee is selected. The handful of leaders who make up the Standing Committee are China's top decision makers.

There will be no frenzy of exit polls and ballot counting. The major outcomes of the ruling Communist Party's 18th National Congress, as the event is known, have been determined in advance after months of secretive maneuvering and deal-making among senior party figures.
But the result matters for China's 1.3 billion citizens and for countries around the globe like the United States that are trying to decipher what the Asian giant's growing international clout means for them.
The only problem is, nobody's sure exactly what China's new top brass will do once they have assumed power.
During the race for the White House in the United States, President Barack Obama and Gov. Mitt Romney eagerly brandished their credentials for getting tough on China, with Obama citing trade suits he'd filed and Romney promising to label Beijing a currency manipulator.China is now the world's second-biggest economy and closing fast on the United States.
There have been disappointments and discontent along the way, and Hu's much vaunted "harmonious society" is showing signs of cracking.Chinese leaders have endured a tumultuous year. The veil of secrecy around the party has been lifted, with reports of rifts and infighting. And the fall of Bo brought about China's biggest political scandal in decades.
Bo, once party chief of the massive metropolis of Chongqing, is now in disgrace awaiting trial. His wife, Gu Kailai, is in prison, convicted of murdering a British business associate.
Senior party leaders and their leaders have had to deal with unusual scrutiny of their affairs, with Western news organizations publishing investigations into the wealth accumulated by the families of Xi and Wen.
Chinese authorities responded to the reports by blocking the websites of the news organizations involved: Bloomberg News and The New York Times.
But China's army of censors is having to grapple with the rapid rise of social media platforms on which information moves and mutates at a dizzying pace.
China is treading many fault lines: a widening gap between rich and poor, rising unrest about issues like pollution and land seizures, and a slowing economy that some say is in need of serious reform.
Hu mentioned some of those tensions Thursday along with several other contentious issues like food safety, health care and the criminal justice system -- acknowledging that "there are a lot of difficulties and problems on our road ahead." Another issue Hu's government has struggled to tackle during its decade in power is the discontent and unrest among Tibetans living under Chinese rule.
Authorities were given a grim reminder on Wednesday of the disillusionment and desperation of many Tibetans in western areas of China after four people set themselves on fire to protest Chinese rule.
One teenage Tibetan monk died and two were injured after self-immolating in a majority Tibetan region of Sichuan Province, said Penpa Tsering, a spokesman for the Tibetan parliament in exile in Dharamsala, India. And a 23-year-old Tibetan woman died a separate incident in Qinghai Province, Tsering said, citing unidentified people in Tibetan areas.
Dozens of Tibetans are reported to have set themselves ablaze in the past 18 months to express their unhappiness with Chinese rule. And the central government in Beijing is also dealing with other restive ethnic groups, like the Uyghurs in the western province of Xinjiang.
As the whole world waits eagerly for one of the biggest economy to announce its set of leaders, we expect more liberal leaders to come to the forefront. This would decide the relations of china with others.

Thursday, 8 November 2012

The Girl Next Door

Ive always had a thing for the girl next door
Like it or leave it but she never was a bore.

So sweet, so cute but thats not new
Still then everyday i feel shes renewed.

10 years it has been since she moved in
Another 10 it will take for my words to begin.

Call it my love or it also might be my liking
In my dreams she is my queen but im never her king.

No matter how i look, no matter how i dress
Im just not able to make her impress.

Maybe she doesnt notice me, she thinks im not there
Oh God let her know how much i care.

Heaven on earth she is for me
But without her from my Hell i shall never be free.

What if she has a bad temper or a bad mood???
Oh!....... a Slap, that will be very rude.

But no need for all this because it the end of my love, thats right
Because i saw her going out with someone last night.

Heart broken or heart shattered whatever it might be
I can feel something hurt deep inside me.

If he makes you happy then im happy for you
Though tonight i shall cry for you......only you.

I never knew her name, it was not on the door
Forget it, leave it because its time to........TRY THE NEXT DOOR.

Tuesday, 6 November 2012

HERE WE GOA !!!

Its been 3 years since me & 2 of my friends planned a trip to goa but it got cancelled because one of my friends mom thought in goa her son will get into girls....booze ......drugs....etc. So much for our months of daydreaming. Then came last year. I still remember me & about 10 of my friends were standing infront of Big Bazar. One of my friend got his job joining letter so it was sort of a farewell. Soon all were going to leave for their jobs too. At that moment i stood up & said guys lets make a pact, next year 2012 we are going to meet in goa. Everyone got pumped at that time i guess & all shouted yes. I with my creative mind said lets take on oath. We had no burning fire that time so i placed my phone & everyone put their hands on it. We all took the oath that next year we meet in goa........All a bit emotional & senti......it was a touchy moment. The pic below was taken that day.....(We do look like vampires....cell phone pic)

Next comes 2012.....by now almost all my friends had left BBSR. Every phone call would end with some discussion on goa. The excitement & anticipation just kept on increasing day by day.  We originally had planned to go during the winter holidays but we later decided for Dushehra holidays. Planning & preparations were underway. On the 18th of oct i initiated the goa journey. I  think i travelled about 100+ hours on the train for the entire trip including the return. See this is how ot happened. I started from BBSr to Kolkata (alone which is really boring) then from Kol i was joined by 2 friend & we left for Pune on the 19th. We reached pune on the 21st & were joined by 2 other friends. Then we left for goa & reached on the 22nd morning. Our other friends joined us at the station there. 



The moment we stepped on the goa platform me & my friend looked at each other & said we are here dude....we are finally here.We hired a taxi went straight to our resort & boy what a view that resort had......it was worth every penny.


 We went to our rooms freshened up, rented us some bikes, had some breakfast & went straight for the beach. The water was so good & relaxing, we spent the whole day at the beach.. Later that evening we went to a club. We danced & had loads of fun there. 


We did lots of water sports....we tried lots of goan cusines....did some shopping......etc.
The best part was the para sailing ....the feeling of just free floating in the air above the ocean....that feeling of peace & forgetting everything around you....... simply amazing. 


All together we saw both the good side & bad side of goa. I cant go into details sorry. A lot of other things also happened but i cant disclose those because my friends wouldnt want me to so i must respect their privacy. We did lots of new things...experienced lots of new things......both good & bad...... But just like my mass comm mam told me once ""experience everything...... just dont get addicted". I guess what happens in goa.......stays in goa.

But all on all we had a fun & memorable trip\ get-together\ holiday...............& we are planing to do another trip next year but some other place.
Lets see how the next one turns out.










Sunday, 7 October 2012

FREE YOUR MIND


The word "creativity," in our society, tends to be applied to artistic endeavors.Creativity is not just about the arts, or particular types of individual.Creativity goes beyond possession and use of artistic or musical talent.When a toddler figures out that he can climb a strategically placed chair to reach a cookie on the kitchen counter, he has engaged in highly creative problem solving. We all have creative potential. Our job as parents and teachers is to help kids fulfill it.Whether that potential is being fulfilled is another story entirely.Today's toddler faces a universe of rapidly evolving technology, an ever-shifting global economy, and far-reaching health and environmental challenges -- scenarios that will require plenty of creative thinking. 

The roots of a creative society are in basic education. The sheer volume of facts to be digested by the students of today leaves little time for a deeper interrogation of their moral worth. The result has been a generation of technicians rather than visionaries, each one taking a career rather than an idea seriously. The answer must be reform in our educational methods so that students are encouraged to ask about “know-why” as well as“know-how”. Once the arts are restored to a more central role in educational institutions, there could be a tremendous unleashing of creative energy in other disciplines too.

Our current school system is slowly squashing the creativity in children's.  We need to change that. We should make changes in our education system to help bring out the creativity potential in each & every children. Creative thinking is shown when children generate ideas, show imagination and originality, and can judge the value of what they have done. What promotes creativity is a questioning classroom, where teachers and pupils value diversity, ask unusual and challenging questions; make new connections; represent ideas in different ways – visually, physically and verbally; try fresh approaches and solutions to problems; and critically evaluate new ideas and actions.By providing rich and varied contexts for pupils to acquire, develop and apply a broad range of knowledge, understanding and skills, the curriculum should enable pupils to think creatively and critically, to solve problems and to make a difference for the better. It should give them the opportunity to become creative, innovative, enterprising and capable of leadership to equip them for their future lives as workers and citizens. It should enable pupils to respond positively to opportunities, challenges and responsibilities, to manage risk and cope with change and adversity.

Promoting creative thinking is a powerful way of engaging children with their learning. Children who are encouraged to think creatively show increased levels of motivation and self esteem. Creativity prepares them with the flexible skills they will need to face an uncertain future. Employers want people who are adaptable, innovative, can solve problems and communicate well with others. Developing the capacity to be creative can enrich their lives and help them to contribute to a better society.

Creativity cannot be left to chance, it must be valued, encouraged and expected - and seen as essential to all teaching and learning. So get creative – and enjoy it!

Sunday, 30 September 2012

NO MERCY

SEE NO EVIL.....HEAR NO EVIL........SPEAK NO EVIL
These are one of the many immortal words of the great Mahatma Gandhi who drove away the British rule from India. His weapons in this battle were truth, non-violence & forgiveness. India was reborn with these ideologies then......But in this present world do these ideologies still matter?????

India is still said to be a humble & forgiving country. Should we take that as a compliment......I dont think these are still our strengths. Our country has been & is still being repeatedly attacked by terrorists, moaists other countries but how does India reply back. Is our country not strong enough to face them once & for all. Or do we lack the man power & technology for so. Does our country do anything about this......if yes then why are all these still happening. When was the last time a death sentence was executed in India? It was in 2004. Instead of executing death sentences our country favors to accept mercy petitions. If the people committing crimes & offence dont even have the fear of sever punishment or death why would they stop their work. In June 2012, it created quite a storm when it became known that Indian president Pratibha Patil commuted the death sentence of as many as 35 convicts to life near the end of her 5 year term as the president including 4 on the same day(June 2).Further, it caused embarrassment to the government when it came to light that one of these convicts Bandu Baburao Tidke- convicted for the rape and murder of a 16 year old girl- had died 5 years ago due to HIV. The Mumbai attacks was one of the biggest terrorism attack in India......What reply did we send back to the terrorists........there are still bomb blasts having to this date. Why cant we put an end to this. If our country would want then no can can dare mess with it. We need to stand up & say enough.

We cannot deal with every situation with forgiveness. I know to forgive is divine but that does not apply to all situations. We cant keep forgiving something that destroys us slowly & slowly. We need to stand up to those who stand against our country. We need to put such fear into them that they will think twice before going against us.

PAIN IS UNAVOIDABLE BUT SUFFERING IS OPTIONAL..........LET US NOT SUFFER ANYMORE.

Saturday, 29 September 2012

RING....RING..........

                                                            
The cell phone is one of the most rapidly growing new technologies in the world. In 2001, cell phone subscriptions were less than a billion worldwide with the majority of the subscriptions from the developed countries. At the end of 2010, however, cell phone subscriptions had reached five billion worldwide with subscriptions from developing countries outnumbering that of the developed countries. Cell phones have become one of the basic of our lives. We eat with them, live with them, sleep with them, work with them......some of us cant even imagine how our ex-generation lived when these phones weren't there.


Cell phones have brought a whole new meaning to the term multitasking. Twenty years ago, it was not possible to talk to the office while you were at the grocery store picking up some necessary items. Cell phones have also enabled families to keep in closer touch with each other. We can make urgent calls in case of some emergency. We cant connect to anyone anywhere in the world with just a press of few buttons. Now a days cell phones have become much more than just a phone.....it can do many wonders like video browsing, games, internet, music & much more. Cell phones have changed the way of life.


But cell phones also have a negative side too. During recent years, the use of mobile phones has increased substantially and has been paralleled by a
growing concern about the effects on health attributed to exposure to the electromagnetic fields produced by them and their base stations. Demonstrating that radiation causes adverse effects on health would signal a widespread public health problem. Mobile phones emit radio frequency or microwave radiation. Exposure to such a radiation could affect health directly. Research is still being done to find concrete conclusions to the affect of cell phones on human body. In the meantime we should talk till necessary & use earpiece whenever we can.


Cell phones can even become an addiction for some. Majority of teens say that they wont have a social life without their cell phones. But life went on before cell phones were invented didn't it......Our parents survived right. But they use them now & it has become a necessity for them. No one blames them. The world is becoming so advanced & fast for us all that we have to keep up with it. For this we need cell phones & other such gadgets. As for social life i know we can call our friends anytime we want or text them.....But what about that person standing right in front of you. Today when people are waiting for a bus or something, they just pull out their cell phones and speak with old friends, missing out on the opportunity to make new ones. In large cities, many people do not know their neighbors, even though they may have lived in the same neighborhood for years. As a society, we are beginning to lose the face-to-face contact that was such an important part of our lives in the past.


Cell phones have changed our lives in both good ways and bad ways. All in all, I'm not saying that cell phones are a bad thing......We should just remember, however, to hang up every once in a while and pay attention to the world around you...... Its a Beautiful World out there.